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Outrageous Credit Card Practices

12/22/2008

Last week, I wrote about The New Rules that the government is going to be implimenting for the credit card companies. These are a largely positive development that will curb some long standing onerous practices such as double-cycle billing, payment due dates that fall on weekends and holidays, and over the limit fees.

They Are Just Getting Started

Unfortunately, I fear that the credit card companies are just getting started when it comes to unsavory practices. Today, we read at the Atlanta Journal and Constitution (via the Consumerist) that card companies are sinking to a new low. An American Express card holder is having his credit reduced based on where he shops. The card holder says he pays his bills on time, and uses less than 30% of his available credit. Amazingly, Amex doesn’t even deny this practice:

American Express said it studies shopping patterns to set credit limits, not to set interest rates.

“We’re just doing this to manage risk,” said Lisa A. Gonzalez, an American Express spokeswoman. She declined to say which retailers or mortgage companies are associated with consumers with higher default rates. She said it makes sense to examine these factors because “customers who have loans outstanding with certain lenders or customers who make transactions with certain merchants tend to have a higher proportion of credit issues or a higher probability of default.”

The cardholder, Kevin D. Johnson, of Atlanta, happens to be black. When consumer advocates heard of this, they felt it seems suspiciously like redlining, the process of deny credit based on race.

What’s Next, Precrime?

Remember the good old days when the credit companies looked at your credit history? Now, apparently they are looking at your credit future. Maybe the police will get in on the act, a la, The Minority Report. In that science fiction movie, people were arrested based on crimes they were likely to commit, but hadn’t committed yet. The agency responsible for the arrests was called the Office of Precrime. By the end of the movie, it was shown to be a sham.

What Other Shams Do The Credit Card Companies Use?

The whole idea of credit scores has some serious flaws in it. For one, your credit score is based, in part on the number of credit inquiries you have had recently. Getting a quote on a car loan, applying for a school loan, and opening a bank account all generate inquiries. There is even a financial version of the Heisenberg Uncertainty Principal at stake. Heisenberg’s law holds that merely observing the state of a subatomic particle changes it, thus it can never be accurately observed. In the same sense, merely getting your own credit report is considered a credit inquiry and may, in part, lower you credit score.

What’s Wrong With This Picture?

Let’s say I am offered a new job on the other side of the country. The company runs my credit as part of their new hire background check. Then, I rent an appartment in my new city, lease a car there, open a checking account at a local bank, and purchase insurance from a local broker. Soon, I want to purchase a house, but when I apply for a loan, I am told my credit score is too low. This is because I have had too many inquiries on my credit report! Amazingly, the fact that I have paid all of my debts on time, and got a new, higher paying job is not all that important. The credit agencies, using a secret formula, have decided that I am now a bad credit risk because I have had too many inquiries. I can argue with them all day, however, all they care about is the score.

Where This Is Going?

This could go in a couple of different directions. In one scenario, the companies continue this practice, accepting all of the false positives that their systems and the credit scoring systems produce in their effort to predict who will default in the future. Unlike the movie, no one goes to jail for crimes they will commit in the future, and the banks feel that the false positives are an acceptable loss.

In the other scenario, the credit markets return to some sense of normalcy, and banks actually want to do business with consumers who pay their bills on time. They may drop their weird models that predict your future payment by the stores you shop at, and get the credit scoring agencies to put a little more weight on your actual payment history.

The one thing that I wouldn’t expect is for the government to step in to resolve this. Banks have been using unfair and deceptive practices for decades, and only now have the first steps been taken to reign them in, albeit eighteen months from now.

Until then, the banks are declaring war, often some of their best customers. Care to guess how that will turn out?

Increase Your Financial IQ Book Review

12/21/2008

increaseyourfinancialiqIncrease Your Financial IQ Get Smarter With Your Money is another book in the series by Robert Kiyosaki. This book as a foreword by Donald Trump.

Let me start by saying that fans of Kiyosaki will see this book as one more brick to help them lay the foundation of their financial education. Those who hate Kiyosaki may well want to chuck this book straight into the fire – because he begins the book by reinforcing some of his most controversial opinions.

Your House Is Not An Asset

Lack of financial education causes people to do stupid things or be misled by stupid people. For example, in 1997, when I first published Rich Dad Poor Dad and stated that “Your house is not an asset…your house is a liability,” howls of protest went up.

My book and I were severely criticized. Many self proclaimed financial experts attacked me in the media.

Ten years later in 2007, as the credit markets crumbled and millions of people were in financial free fall- many losing their homes, some declaring bankruptcy, others owing more on their house than it was worth as real estate dropped in value – these individuals painfully found out that their homes are indeed liabilities, not assets.

Wow. Was that a poorly written “I told you so?

Lack of humility notwithstanding, I do love the premise of this book. The whole idea behind Increase Your Financial IQ is that knowledge is more valuable than money – that knowledge is the true path to wealth. I couldn’t agree more. As Kiyosaki explains it:

Golf Lessons or Golf Clubs

A friend of mine is a golfing fanatic. He spends thousands of dollars a year on new clubs and every new golf gadget that comes to market. The problem is, he will not spend a dime on golf lessons. Hence his golf game remains the same even though he has the latest and greatest golf equipment. If he invested his money in golf lessons and used last year’s clubs, he might be a much better golfer.

The same nutty phenomenon occurs in the game of money. Billions of people invest their hard-earned money in assets such as stocks and real estate but invest almost nothing in information. Hence their final scores remain about the same.

Chapter 1: What is Financial Intelligence?

Kiyosaki begins this chapter by highlighting the most common money problems – for poor people, and rich people.

The money problems of poor people:

The money problems of wealthy people:

Kiyosaki then goes on to talk about poor solutions to money problems – the ones we think will work, but never really solve anything.

Money alone does not solve your money problems:

Giving poor people money does not solve their money problems. In many cases, it only prolongs the problem and creates more poor people. Take for instance the idea of welfare. From the time of the Gret Depression until 1996 the government guaranteed money to the nations poor regardless of personal circumstance. All you had to do was qualify for the poverty requirements to receive a government check -perpetually. If you showed initiative, got a job, and earned more than the poverty requirement, the government cut off your benefits.

Of course, the poor then had other costs associated with working that they didn’t have before, such as uniforms, child care, transportation, etc. In many cases they ended up with less money than before they had a job, and less time. The system benefited those who were lazy and punished those who showed initiative. The system created more poor people.

Hard work doesn’t solve money problems.

The world is filled with hard working people who have no money to show for it. Hard working people who earn money, yet grow deeper in debt, needing to work even harder for even more money.

So, what does solve money problems?

Financial intelligence solves money problems:

If you want to increase your financial intelligence, you need to be a problem solver. If you don’t solve your money problems you will never be rich. In fact, you will become poorer the longer the problem persists.

Man! I think this is exceptionally true. If you have a problem with how you manage credit, you certainly become poorer over time – as you watch your credit card interest rates and fees being tacked onto your minimum payments over and over again…

If you ignore your bills, or pay irregularly, you can see your credit score drop, fees get added on, everything. I think Kiyosaki’s advice here is very “common sense”. Obviously we need to solve our money problems in order to get richer instead of poorer. Kiyosaki believes that solving these problems as they occur is what gives us our Financial Intelligence. He also believes that small money problems lead to larger ones.

Rich Dad used the example of having a toothache to illustrate what he meant by a problem leading to other problems. He said, “Having a money problem is like having a toothache. If you do not handle the toothache, it makes you feel bad. If you feel bad, you may not do well at work because you are irritable. Not fixing the toothache can leade to further medical complications because it is easy for germs to breed and spread from your mouth.

One day you lose your job because you have been missing work due to your chronic illness. Without a job you cannot pay your rent. If you fail to solve the problem of rent money, you are on the street, homeless, in poor health, eating out of the garbage, and you still have a toothache.

Kiyosaki encourages solving your money problems while they are small…getting down to the root of them from the very start. Instead of using credit cards to cover a shortage of money, take a different tactic – figure out how to earn more, or spend less.

How the poor handle money problems:

The poor see money problems only as problems. Many feel they are victims of money. Many feel they are the only ones with money problems. They think that if they had more money their money problems would be over. Little do they know that their attitude towards money is the problem. Their attitude creates their money problems. Their inability to solve, or their avoidance of, their money probelms only prolongs the problems and makes them bigger.

Well, I have read time and again that everyone thinks they need more money – just a little more to make things ok. In my own life, I have watched my spending adapt regularly to both more, and less money. For a long time, no matter how much (or how little) money I made, I still had nothing left over to claim as my own.

That’s one reasons that I did find a lot of wisdom in Rich Dad Poor Dad – Kiyosaki advises paying yourself first. Otherwise, you definitely find that you will always need just a little more money to be happy.

How the Middle Class Handle Money Problems:

While the poor are the victims of money, the middle class are prisoners of money.

The middle class solve their money problems differently. Instead of solving the money problem, they think they can outsmart their money problems. The middle class will spend money to go to school, so they can get a secure job.

At the age of fifty many middle aged people discover they are prisoner in their own office. Many are valued employees. They have experience. They earn enough money, and have enough job security. Yet deep down they know that they are trapped financially, and they lack the financial intelligence to escape from their office prison. They look forward to surviving fifteen more years when, at age 65 they can retire and then begin to live. On a leaner budget of course.

This again goes back to some of the points Kiyosaki made in Rich Dad Poor Dad – that you don’t want to be the employee that sits behind the desk and collects a paycheck (unless you want to be trapped at 50!). Instead, Kiyosaki advises owning the company, and being the person that hires the employees and signs the checks.

How the Rich Handle Money Problems:

When the rich have money problems, they use their financial intelligence developed through many years of facing and solving money problems. If the rich don’t know the answer to their money problems, they don’t walk away and throw in the towel. They seek out experts who can help them solve their money problems. In the process, they become financially more intelligent and are that much more equipped to solve the next problem when it comes around.

I don’t know…”Financial Intelligence” is starting to sound a lot like “experience solving financial problems” to me. Even so, success breeds success, and failure is an excellent teacher too.

Next Sunday we’ll move a little deeper into Increase Your Financial IQ with the next section on the Five Basic Financial IQ’s. Grab our free RSS feed so that you don’t miss the next section – and thanks for reading!

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Wishing You Joy For The Holidays

12/20/2008

With Christmas fast approaching, it’s so easy to get caught up in all the little details – where you have to go, what you need to , loose ends to wrap up at work, everything.

So, I just wanted to take a moment with you. A quite moment to wish you the joy of the holiday season. I wish you peace, and happiness. I am thankful for each and everyone of you that have helped to make this blog a success this year. Thank you for taking time out of your busy day to read the articles, to leave comments, ask questions, and most of all, for taking the time to come back for a visit once in a while.

I hope that despite all of the craziness that can descend along with the holiday season, that you are getting to spend time – close and quite time, with those you love. I hope that you have time for a good cup of cocoa, time to hear your children and your loved ones laugh, time to be joyful and playful and happy!

I’ve been listening to Christmas songs today, and I wanted to share one of my favorites. It’s a little silly – I have a young daughter, and we’ve been watching The Muppet Christmas Carol. If you have a moment, will you share your favorite holiday song with me? It doesn’t have to be Christmas related – just a song that makes you smile! You can leave the YouTube link at the bottom if you want. 🙂


I hope that you are having a wonderful weekend! As always, I wanted to take the time with you to share some of the articles that I loved reading this week.

My Favorites!

Happy Holidays (Frugal Style!)

Pre-Planning and Saving for the Future:

Carnivals, Festivals and Celebrations:

That’s it for this weekend’s link round-up. Happy Holidays!

Class Action Lawsuit Update

12/19/2008

One of our readers, Jen, left this comment:

Hi Connie,

Please do let us know what happened with the lawyer – there are thousands of people whose credit scores are now worthless because of the reduced credit limits combined with their equally frustrating practice of ‘chasing the balance’. A class-action lawsuit would be music to many, many ears.

Hi Jen, thanks for your comment. I wanted to give an update because many of our readers are in the same situation with their credit card companies. About a week ago, I posted an ad on HARO – which is short for Help A Reporter Out. Basically it’s a daily newsletter where journalists can post requests for expert sources.

I requested the help of a lawyer who specialized in class action lawsuits against major corporations, with the intention of doing an interview, and hopefully having that lawyer, plus any of our readers who are involved, be the ones to actually get a class action lawsuit started.

I had such an overwhelming response from so many qualified lawyers and firms thats it’s taken me quite a bit of time to weed through them all! I am happy to say that I am in the process of doing interviews with two different law firms – both of which have handled, and won, several major class action lawsuits in the past.

The results of the interviews, plus the lawyer’s bios, backgrounds and case histories will be up on this site immediately after the holidays. Since the firms I am interviewing are not being paid for their interviews, I am pretty much at their mercy as far as timing.

I do apologize for the delay – I know many of you out there are interested in this! I want to be as thorough as possible, and set everyone up with a quality law firm that is willing to answer questions and handle the case.

Very Important –

As I am doing these interviews, I would really like your input. Do you have any questions? Let me know, and I will pass them on. You can ask a question or express your interest in the case directly by leaving a comment below!

Thanks,
Connie Brooks

Living Without Debt, An Extreme Example

12/18/2008

Veering a little of the subject of reward credit cards today, I came across an interesting article on the extremes of living frugally and without debt.

You Can’t Make This Stuff Up

The name of the most economical family in the United States is…the Economides. Coincidence? The article describes how the family of seven gets by on $44,000 a year, with no debt. Two things jump out at me. First $44,000 is a very little amount of money in the United States for family of that size. Their frugality must be epic. Second, they do not even hold a loan on their house, a practice which may actually hurt them.

Lessons From Their Epic Frugality

They shop at discount stores, where the goods are the same, and the prices are a fraction of other retailers. This is a fantastic practice since really, only you know where you bought the item. They explain that they always ask themselves if they really need something before purchasing it. When they do make purchases, they seem to make saving money a game rather than a chore. Buying used cars with cash is another great habit that I have extolled.

They relentlessly plan their meals around coupons and specials. I imagine they rarely, if ever eat out. While I can’t say that I plan meals that meticulously, I almost always use coupons when I eat out. If $44,000 if all they have to live off of, then budgeting everything must be the only way to go.

Owning A Home With No Debt, A Good Idea?

I have always learned that it is actually good to have a mortgage on an appreciating asset, like your house. The article states that they purchased a house for $200,000 that is now worth $700,000, and that it is almost paid off. A home is the rare instance where debt works in your favor. By paying off their house, they loose out on the mortgage interest tax deductions, and are unable to leverage their purchasing power. Their money is now tied up in their home.

Only Using Cash

The article describes how they only pay cash for everything. I would think that a family with this much self control ought to be able to use their credit cards for charging day to day items and earning rewards. Many people, like myself, are far less frugal than they are, yet I earn rewards from my credit cards without paying any interest on my charges. Even better, my money stays in my interest checking account for up to 45 days from when I make a purchase until when it is paid off. I earn interest instead of paying it. I would love to know why such a frugal family does not do that.

Pennywise, But Pound Foolish?

With those kind of economic skills, I wonder why they are only earning $44,000 a year? Indeed, the article indicates that they are publishing a book on consumer finance, and that they also have a website. Unfortunately, as of this writing, their web site, www.homeeconomiser.com was showing a an error message. It appears as if publicity from this article generated so much traffic that their web server couldn’t handle it. Anyone who knows the basics about internet businesses will tell you that web site traffic translates directly into income. Perhaps if they had not been so frugal in finding an internet hosting company, they would be raking it in now.

What About The Opportunity Costs Of Extreme Frugality?

Another aspect of their lifestyle that I would question would be their time management. By spending so much time looking for bargains and budgeting their expenses into 19 separate categories, are they missing opportunities to increase their household income?

For example, I try not to spend time clipping coupons and endlessly rummaging though bargain bins that I could spend either earning money or increasing my earning potential. I have found part time work doing things I enjoy (like writing this column) to earn extra money.

I am also a firm believer in putting a value on your free time. If cutting coupons does not save you more money than your time is worth to you, why bother? While the article does not mention what line of business they are in, pursuing additional education would likely increase their earning potential. Potentially, this would produce a greater net benefit than some of their time consuming penny pinching.

Ultimately It Is About What You Want From Life

I have no problem with frugality. I once lived extremely frugally. I rented out a microscopic room in a run down house and I didn’t even own a car. That time was called college. When I graduated, I made the concious decision to optimize my finances to maximize my ongoing enjoyment of live. I have no doubt that I could go back to living off a minimal budget, but I have come to realize that I wouldn’t be as happy. I simply do not want to live my life obsessed with the cost of everything. It is not that I lack self control, it is that I prefer to make financial decisions that balance my frugality with other goals in my life.

Choosing The Right Credit Card

creditcard4*This is a guest post by Will, from Money Galaxy

Pay closest attention to the financial terms, not the perks or the hype.

For most of us, receiving credit card offers in the mail is pretty much an every day occurrence. Last year alone, banks mailed 2.5 billion of these credit card offers.

Banks are failing, lending standards have tightened, and yet the credit card industry is still chugging along (although the screws might soon be tightening on existing accounts). And while the 2.5 billion mark is about half of what it was the the early 2000’s, the reduction in mail offers is more than compensated for by the Internet, as the number of companies that offer credit cards keeps growing every day.

The trick is that you need to be aware of your own spending patterns in order to do a better job sifting through the numerous offers and pick the best credit card for you.

The average U.S. household with at least one credit card carries nearly a $9,200 balance, according to CardWeb.com. Although this figure should be taken with caution, it speaks volumes about the level of debt Americans are dealing with. For many people, successful credit card debt management is a constant uphill battle. Anytime a zero balance is achieved for a given month or two, it is immediately followed by a longer period of debt that is carried at substantial interest rates, pretty much like people go on diets and gain all the weight back, and then some.

If you’re unable to pay off your credit card balance each month, it’s probably best that you stay away from credit cards with no annual fee. No-annual-fee cards tend to carry higher interest rates, so their finance charges end up making them more costly to cardholders who carry a balance from month to month. As a rule, the ideal interest rate on a credit card should be no more than six or seven percentage points above the prime rate.

On the other hand, if you’re among the one-third of cardholders who pay off their balance each month, a no-fee card could be exactly what you need. More than half credit cards issued by banks charge no annual fee. And since accidents do happen, you should plan ahead for the eventual month where you might come up short and shop for no-fee cards with the lowest rate on unpaid balances.

More and more credit cards nowadays are offering perks (say, frequent flier miles) or rebates. Many of these cards have annual fees and high interest rates and in several cases you have to be a pretty big spender to accumulate a free ticket or sizable rebate, but if you look hard enough, there are some good deals to be found. As a rule, though, credit card experts generally steer people away from cards with too many bells and whistles (they have to make up for it elsewhere). You’re better off just keeping the money in your pocket.

In any case, if you’re considered transferring your credit card balance to another company that offers better terms, it’s always a good idea to contact your current credit card company first. Banks spend upwards of $100 per customer to attract a new account, and in this increasingly competitive market they would rather negotiate more attractive terms to retain your business than lose you and have to spend to acquire a new account to replace the lost business.

Above all, be skeptical of pre-approved offers with “teaser” interest rates and fees or fancy perk promotions. The truth is usually buried in the “fine print” found in the disclosure box printed on the back of most credit card applications. Read it carefully, most people don’t!

Similarly, collecting credit cards a hardly a smart idea. Most consumers’ needs will be more than adequately met with just two credit cards.

*Will writes about personal finance on Money Galaxy, and touches on various subjects like understanding the stock market, or explaining how much money is insured in bank accounts by the FDIC, among other topics.*

What Happens To My Points If I Lose Or Cancel My Card?

12/17/2008

In these days of unprecedented upheval in the credit markets, many people are cancelling their cards, or having their cards cancelled by their banks. For a reward card afficianado, this poses an intersting question. If I lose or cancel my card, what happens to the points I earned?

It Depends

First, think about which company is giving you the points, and which company runs the program. For example, I might have a United Airlines reward card. The card is issued by Chase bank. Chase awards me miles in United’s MileagePlus program. The moment those miles hit my United account, they are essentially mine forever. The only situation that would change that would involve some kind of fraud on my part, as I recall there is a boilerplate provision that miles can be forfeited in that case. Fair enough.

The same would be true with a card like the American Express Starwood card. Amex issues me the card, and awards me the points in Starwood’s system. The points are in Starwood’s system, not American Express. If I cancel my Amex, there is no question that I retain ownership of the points through Starwood.

On the other hand, some reward systems are run by the banks themselves. These points may or may not be forfeited when you lose your card or cancel. The most infamous case is the American Express Membership Rewards program. If American Express wakes up one day and decides that you are no longer worthy of their card, they will cancel it, and you will lose all of your Membership Rewards points! Likewise, if you choose to part company with your Amex, be sure to redeem all of your points first.

There are many other bank run reward programs, like Citibank’s ThankYou Rewards and others. The rules are burried in the fine print that you receive when you were granted the card.

Be Careful

I know all of you studied the fine print very closely when you received your cards. I expect that you still recall every detail of the entire agreement and it’s subsequent revisions. If not, I am sure you have it filed away somewhere.

Otherwise, you probably think you can just call your bank and get the scoop. You might imagine that the customer service representatives hired by the banks spent years in training memorizing all of the rules for all of their cards. Of course, they will accurately provide you the correct answer when asking them a simple question. Yeah right.

The internet is filled with stories of bank representatives giving customers woefully incorrect information. In some instances, representatives have told customers that they will forfeit all of their frequent flier mileage if they cancel their card. In those situations, it may even be an intentionally deceptive claim made to retain an account. In other situations, customers are not informed that they will lose their points or miles if they cancel their account. The only way to protect yourself is to ask for the policy in writing.

How Else Can They Deny Me My Rewards?

By far, the most common way that people loose points and miles is by running afowl of their credit card’s rules. Each card member agreement states that rewards are only offered when you pay your bill on time. Miss a payment, or pay late, and you will not accure any rewards, in addition to the usual late fees.

You earned those points, make sure you don’t loose them!

The 9 Steps to Financial Freedom by Suze Orman Conclusion

12/15/2008

9stepstofinancialfreedomThis article is the conclusion to a multi-part review of The 9 Steps to Financial Freedom by Suze Orman. If you missed the first parts of the review, you can read them here first:

Orman begins the final section of the book with a quote from her grandfather. He said these words to her before he passed on:

Suze, listen. They can take your money, they can take your business, they can take your family, they can even take your mind. The one thing they can never take,” he would say, “is your heart. And you must grow up valuing your own heart. Love life for what you can give it, Suze, and don’t get bitter over what it will take from you.”

Who are they people in this life you truly love and cherish? What are the things you value most? What do you think, deep down inside is the key to your freedom? Do you really think the answer is something as simple as money?

It is definitely true that you can lose everything in life – your money, your home, your job, even, as Mrs. Orman’s grandfather says – your mind. You heart and your spirit though, they stay with you till the end. Life really is what you make of it, and the meaning of life certainly is not money.

Orman continues this section with the 7th step to financial freedom.

Step 7: Being Open to Receive All That You Are Meant To Have

This chapter was a little odd, but I did like the following excerpt:

What I learned from the parrot seller:

I was in Mexico once and there was a merchant at a market who had many parrots for sale. They were just sitting on perches. None of them in cages, none flying away. I was fascinated by the fact that none of them were even trying to escape. I asked the merchant, “Do these birds love you so much they have no desire to fly away?”

He laughed. “No,” he said. “I had to train them to think their perches mean safety and security. When they come to think this they naturally wrap their claws tightly around the perch and don’t want to release it. They keep themselves confined, as if they’ve forgotten they know how to fly.”

“Was this hard to do?” I asked.

“with the little birds it’s very hard, sometimes even impossible. It’s easy with the large birds. ”

Suddenly, a light bulb went off in my head. We are, I thought, just like those poor parrots. We’ve all been taught to clutch our money as tightly as we can, as if our money is the perch of our safety and security. Justlike those parrots, we have all forgotten how free we really are – with or without the perch. The more afraid we are, the tighter we hold on, and the more we have trapped ourselves.

When I realized this, I asked the merchant how he would go about “Un-teaching” this behavior. “Easy,” he said. “You just show them how to release their grip, and then they can fly as free as they want.”

Easy for the parrots, maybe, but how, I wondered, do we go about releasing our own grip on money?

I do believe that the older we get, the more we tend to cling to our money as a form of security. We also cling to our homes, and our children. The hard truth is, there really is no security – as millions of pre-retirees who have just watched their portfolios plummet can attest. That’s one reason that diversification is so essential. You cannot really ensure anything. The best you can do is hedge your bets and understand that you have to “let go and fly” as Orman puts it.

We can “fly” an be successful in lean times, and times of plenty because it’s our spirit that picks up the tab. Move on and move up as the saying goes.

Orman goes on to talk about the life cycles of money and the necessity of making donations even in times when you have very little.

Money flows through our lives just like water – at times plentiful, at times a trickle. I believe that each one of us is, in effect, a glass, and that we can hold only so much; after that, the water -or the money – just goes down the drain. Some of us are larger glasses, some of us are smaller, but we all have the capacity to receive plenty more than we need if we allow it. When you make an offering the glass will be filled again and again and again.

I knew I always felt better right after I made an offering -stronger, worthier, more powerful. And after a while I began to believe that it was no coincidence that after I made such an offering, more money would always begin to flow my way.

I do believe that it is essential to donate money, though I am sometimes guilty of not doing it! I definitely agree with Orman tht I feel like a better person when I give. As soon as I donate anything – whether it’s one dollar or $100, I feel richer, and happier, and better.

Step 8: Understanding The Ebb and Flow of The Money Cycle

With the 8th step to financial freedom Orman continues her explanation of the greater cycles of money.

It is so important to learn to accept that your own money will always have it’s ups and downs. No matter how carefully you plan – even if you do every financial thing right – money, like every other living thing, isn’t always going to behave in ways you can predict.

Ok, I do have trouble visualizing money as a living breathing thing. This is a concept that Orman revisits several times throughout her book and I just disagree. My money is a tool, just like a shovel or a car. It’s whole purpose is to accomplish my goals. I do not think of it as my friend, and I do not personify it and give it a spirit.

Money does however, undeniable have cycles. Just like the stock market or the seasons. And those cycles can be predicted to a certain degree if you know what the signs are. (Got laid off?….it’s a sign you will have less money…Got a promotion? It’s a sign you will have more!)

Orman continues with a unique quote about why you should choose to always see the glass as half full.

Second – and for some people this may be more difficult to do than anything else I have told you so far – you must believe that everything that happens is positive, if you are willing to let it be.

I know some of you are going to say, “Suze, How can it be a positive thing if my husband leaves me and cleans out my bank account?” “How can it be a positive thing if I lose all my savings in a stock market crash?” Please understand, I am not saying such events won’t be tragic and painful; I have been through some of them myself, and I know how hard they can be. But I also have learned that they can, if we are open to them, teach us lessons and give us gifts that we would never have found at more comfortable times. Things that seem almost unbearable as they’re happening to you can even, in the long run, lead to riches you never imagined.

This is very true in my opinion. All of the difficulties in my life have had silver linings, sometimes I just had to look harder than others. Having Pollyana state of mind isn’t a bad thing, but it can be a bit unrealistic. I think that being able to look at things they way they actually are – good or bad – is what allows us to make the best decisions with out finances.

Step 9: Recognizing True Wealth

For the final section of the book, Orman spends some time talking about the true meaning of wealth. And, she concludes that it isn’t money.

Now it is time to answer the question, What is true wealth, true financial freedom? This question is the real bottom line of life and each one of us must address it, regardless of the bottom line that shows up each month on our bank statements. Why? Because the quality of our lives does not depend only on how we accumulate, save, and spend our money. True financial freedom lies in defining ourselves by who and what we are, not by what we do or do not have. You are the person you are right now. We cannot measure our self worth by our net worth.

Not measuring your self worth by your net worth is trite, but it is true. There is more to each of us than our money, and I don’t think there is a person out there who doesn’t know that.

Conclusion:

This book gets mixed reviews from me. I wish that I could wholeheartedly give it a thumbs up, but I can’t. The book as a whole is filled with so much pseudo-psychobabble that I wanted to tear it up on occasion. The case studies she gives are ludicrous and overblown. Orman is not a psychologist, but she is attempting to be one in this book. That’s the bad stuff.

I would however recommend ing this book (or better yet grabbing it from the library) simply because of the sections where she covers living wills, trusts, and how to begin investing for retirement. Those sections are worth the entire price of the book because they walk you through the topics step by step in plain language. I will use those sections as I work through my own estate planning later this year.

Also, the book at times is heartfelt. Especially when Orman is giving examples of her own life. I very much enjoyed reading those parts.

How about you? Have you read this book? Do you plan to read it? Tell me what you think in the comments below!

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Should You Give Children Cash For Christmas?

12/13/2008

One of our readers, TStrump, left this comment:

My nephew is 12-yrs old and he is already asking for cash as gifts – Christmas, birthdays – all the time. I’m concerned he is learning the wrong things about money, already.
Not sure how to deal with this … basically, when he asks, I just say NO.

I thought that was such a wonderful comment. What do you do when a child asks you for money as a present?

Do you think it’s a reflection of greed? As in “Nothing you could me would be what I want, and at least if you give me money I can what I really want?”

It takes all the thought that went into your gift and throws it right out the window. At least from my point of view. Still, I know some people do not mind and are happy to give cash to adults and children.

Personally, I don’t because I always end up spending far more than I normally would if I give a person cash. When I shop for normal items I take my time, and usually try to get them on clearance, or at least with a discount. With cash, the person suddenly knows how much the gift cost, and that can be judged very quickly.

I don’t give gift cards for that reason either. I would rather put my time and caring into picking out a gift that I hope the person will love! Still though. Ever Christmas my grandmother gives me an envelope with cash, and I always look forward to it! So it’s a double edged issue for me.

What do you think? Would you rather receive cash as a gift for Christmas? Do you give cash presents to others? Tell me about it below? I would love to know what you think!

There were some excellent articles this week around the blog-o-sphere, and I wanted to share the best ones with you. I hope you find a few here that you enjoy!

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Talking To Your Children About Money And Credit

12/12/2008

One of the most important things we can do as parents is to teach our children about money and credit. This isn’t something that’s taught in school – which means that the responsibility lies 100% with us. I wanted to discuss a few basic plans with you all today, and get your opinion on them. What do you think is the best way to talk to your child about money, and credit?

Here’s my take:

Teach your child to save first:

This is especially easy with younger children who have no access to credit. Don’t even make borrowing money an option. If there is something that your child wants, but cannot afford, don’t just it for them. Sit them down and talk about the cost of the item.

Make a simple chart or budgeting worksheet.

If your child has an allowance, then help them put together a budget. Help them figure out how long it will take them to save for the item. I would recommend getting them their own calendar, and marking their budget on it. You can put stickers on the calendar, or the budgeting worksheet to make things more fun. Give your child a sticker each time they save like they planned to, etc.

If your child believes that it will take them too long to save for the item, you can always encourage them to find more ways to earn money (which is an excellent real-world lesson!). Offer them more chores, or see what type of an odd job they can do to earn extra money. Keep stickering their calendar and charts so that they stay excited about their goal.

I know this sounds like a plan for younger children, but it works just as well with teenagers – as long as you don’t talk down to them. The message is basically the same: No, I’m not going to give you what you want, or lend you money. Earn it, and Save for it. Obviously you will say that as gently as possible – but the meaning shouldn’t change.

I truly do believe that it’s best to start with that lesson before you ever introduce credit, or allow your child to borrow money.

Make sure your child knows there is a direct connection between time and money:

This is one reason a calendar and a budget are so important. Help your child understand exactly how many hours of his / her life they are going to have to work to have the item they want.

You know, as an adult I sometimes things that I do not need, and regret it later. One of the best ways that I found to stop that behavior was to think (even for a second) of how many hours I had to work in order to purchase that item. Nearly every single time I ask myself that question, I end up putting the item back.

It’s especially important when you are talking about credit and borrowing money. Not only do you have to work hours of your life to afford the item, but unless you pay your full balance each month, you have to work additional hours to pay the interest on the loan.

So that calendar, and budgeting worksheet go a long way towards teaching your child to question his/ her purchases and judge them by the mount of time it will take to earn them. Especially if you are consistent about using them.

Talking to your child about credit:

Having basic “Save before you ” mentality will work wonders when you start introducing credit to your child. When my daughter is olden enough, I am going to teach her about credit card rewards first.

I will explain to her what the rewards of good credit are (That it costs you less to borrow money because people know that you will pay them back) and also that it’s possible to get some nice financial benefits and rewards if you use credit correctly. She will never be allowed to borrow money that she does not already have in savings. If she uses credit it will be because she has the money at home already, and wants to take advantage of the rewards from using credit.

I believe this will set her up with a better mentality about credit cards. Credit cards are financial tools. In some cases they are excellent financial tools. Being able to get rewards because you use your credit cards is a nice benefit of having good credit. In some cases it’s like getting a constant discount of a few percent – whether that’s in rebates, airline miles or cash back.

Obviously, my daughter will be much older before we have these types of conversations. If you child is the right age for this type of discussion, make sure you mark a calendar with their due dates as well as your own. Take the time to sit down with them and make sure they are budgeting and making payments on time. Adding your child as an authorized user and sharing a basic rewards credit card account might be an excellent way to teach your child how the rewards of good credit work. It’s also an excellent way for you to supervise their use of credit, and to oversee their payments.

I don’t believe I even want to teach my daughter that she can borrow money that she does not have. That’s my whole goal with talking to her about good credit and rewards. I Want her to know right from the start that you don’t borrow money because you don’t have any money.

If you are broke and have no money you work to earn more. If you have money and borrowing gives you a clear financial benefit, then it’s an acceptable situation.

What do you think about this plan? Do you have any suggestions? Leave me a comment below!

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